Hi Abdelhamid,
Thank you very much for your response. I absolutely agree with you. Everybody here should be encouraged to express his/her opinion freely regardless of whom they are.
Other than foul language, we can accept any types of errors and mistakes such as grammatical errors and spelling mistakes which may be beyond our knowledge and control. We can also accept some careless mistakes and typo errors because we don’t always have time to make the corrections although we know that the mistakes can be minimized if we are careful enough. What I think the problem is is that some members keep on making the same mistakes, especially the “i” instead of “I”, again and again. The problem is not only the use of incorrect lower case but also, the most important thing is, the practice itself.
May I take this opportunity to tell you something happened to me recently? Not long ago I received an email from my old friend. The email was related to the selling of her property so I considered it as something formal. But in the entire email she used “i” all the time. Twenty years ago her English was already better than mine now since she’s the secretary in our department in an American firm. She could write and type perfect professional business letters instantly without error. I couldn’t understand why she used the lower case “i” in her email because her English and typing skill are so good. At the very moment, I had some hard feeling as I felt that I was not being respected. I queried whether our friendship is not even worth than the smallest movement of her finger tip by pressing the “SHIFT” key. I supposed that there shouldn’t be any hardware problem with the “SHIFT” key since there are two such keys in the standard keyboard. One on the right and one on the left. The feeling was somewhat similar to somebody talking to you without looking at you and even with the back on you. When I calmed down after a while, I realized that that was not her intention to use the lower case but just a “habit” she has established here in Canada.
Actually, I am in a dilemma. As a good old friend, I need to tell her the problem. However, I understand that she has the knowledge but the problem is just a habit. Should I correct her problem? If I do so, I think the only consequence is that our friendship will be jeopardized. Could I change anything even when I speak it out? At the time being, the only thing I can do is to keep my mouth shut.
In our forum, nevertheless, the situation is absolute different. Almost everybody here claims that he/she is “WILLING” to “[color=blue]IMPROVE” his/her English. To me, the word “improve” means to make something [color=blue]change and make it better. I think the members in this forum should not be “takers” only, but “givers” also. Today, I would like to give my best friendly advice to others to “improve” their habit. In Chinese, there is a proverb “ 教學相長 ”, meaning that “ Teaching and Learning are Beneficial to Each Other” .
Anyway, whether they are willing to take the advice and make their improvement are solely their personal decisions. But I am wondering why people still insist in [color=blue]NOT pressing the “SHIFT” key. Oh, is that really their intentions? Hopefully not !!!
Best regards,
Nick*
Teaching and learning are beneficial to each other