This is my second essay here. I would be thankful if the coach could score me.
As a matter of fact, every man who is on the eve of walking down the aisle is thinking about choosing and finding a good wife. In this matter, the first things that come to mind are what a good wife’s characteristics are. In this brief essay some essential elements of a good wife will be mentioned.
First of all, compatibility is of momentous importance of a marriage partner. Since the marital life is a huge commitment for the couples who choose each other as an everlasting life partner, without compatibility it will turn out to be a struggle rather than a tranquillizing life.
Second, a great number of unmarried girls think of a knight in shining armour who is perfect in all aspects. But no one is ideal. A good wife accepts her husband as he is as a growing individual and helps him grow in the direction that he chooses. A husband has so much to offer if only his wife gives him space to be himself.
Thirdly, it is commonplace between men that women are notorious for being verbose. Men as a working force of a family sometimes have a hard time at their workplace. Thus, they need a calm environment in their home, especially when they just arrive home. In this case, being silent may seem more plausible. On the other hand, sometimes a husband needs his wife to share his problems with her and get a kind feedback from his wife. Being talkative may seem more cogent in this case. A good wife is clever enough to know when she must quiet and when talk.
At last, but maybe even in the same level of importance with above mentioned factors, attraction should be named. From morally vantage point, love should be limited to marital partner. Attraction is a necessary aspect of a good wife which attracts her husband’s attention to her. Although sex appeal of a curvaceous and voluptuous wife cannot guarantee the fidelity, lacking it is likely doom to husband’s disloyalty.
I want to tell a so-called joke. As a matter of fact, I’m, as a man, not supposed to say like this but never mind. It is our merciful and generous God who created us like this.
The God was asked by a human that “why you created women so beautiful” and the God said “because I wanted men love them”. “But why so naive?”, God replied “because I wanted to let them love men, too”.
Don’t worry. There is an old adage in my native country which I really like which says: “don’t rush to choose your marriage partner. For everybody there is a perfect partner and your work is to use some of her/him manifestations which are given by God.”