Hi,
What do you think about the use of “it” in these sentences? Is it wrong or impolite to use ‘it’ to refer to people? and should “that” be used instead?
1/ Who did that?
- It’s my brother
2/ Who is that?
- It’s my brother
Many thanks
Nessie.
Hi,
What do you think about the use of “it” in these sentences? Is it wrong or impolite to use ‘it’ to refer to people? and should “that” be used instead?
1/ Who did that?
2/ Who is that?
Many thanks
Nessie.
For me, in 1 - My brother (did) would sound better. Or That was my brother (who did that).
I think for the first one, it would be better not to use the contraction “It’s”, instead, use “It was”. Or you can just say “My brother”.
For the second one, I think “it’s” is fine.
(That - wrong?) It was my brother (who did that).
Hi Inga
No, using the word that is also possible. I was responding to Nessie’s specific question. She wanted to know whether the word that “should be used” instead of the word it. It is not a problem to use the word it in the context Nessie gave.
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Thanks a lot, everybody
Hi Amy,
Do you mean there are other cases where the use of “it” to refer to people is impolite?
Of course there are. For example, the following would be impolite and/or just plain weird:
Yea, that surely sounds very impolite, but it’s too obvious, could you please give me another example?
Thank you in advance.
Nessie.
Nessie, from TV I usually hear not so very expecting mother refers to the child inside her as “it”. I find that disturbing. But some people are okay with it.
Thanks a lot, siCantikManis
By the way could you please tell me about your use of “not so very” (I wonder about the use of “so very” - usually I just hear people say “not very…” or “not so…”, but I’ve never heard anyone say “not so very…”) (except one time when Amy used it, I asked her but I’ve forgot the answer :P)
Many thanks in advance.
Nessie.
I am not good at grammars, let alone at explaining it, but I’d try.
I think the use of “not so very” is not very grammatical in written English because maybe it sounds like you are saying “very” twice (not very very, weird right?), but I think in spoken English people say it to put more stress.
To some I guess it is redundant.
Maybe others can give better and correct explanation.
Please accept my profuse apologies for writing something that was “too obvious” an answer for the question you asked.
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