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One reputable grammar site states explicitly that: ‘Sums and products of mathematical processes are expressed as singular and require singular verbs’.
Another waffles: ‘Usually a singular verb is used in arithmetic statements’.
On the other hand, Ms Google coughs up:
16,400 English pages for “two and two are four” 798 English pages for “two and two is four”.
As for me, I have ceased worrying about it and use both. It seems to me that 2 + 2 = 4 can be looked at as either a single process or a compound subject, and with equal validity.
Or you can take the psychological approach:
A psychotic thinks that two and two are five.
A neurotic knows two and two are four – but he hates it.
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