Neither of them...if there is any mistake please correct it: Ganesh

English as a Second Language English Vocabulary, Grammar and Idioms
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1/ Neither of themhave been lucky.

2/ Me and him went together to the pictures.

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  1. Neither of them has been lucky
  2. He and I went together to the pictures (maybe you mean to the cinema or the theatre?)
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Neither of them have been lucky is also grammatically correct. the tense depends on the context.

He and I went to the pictures together.