I would appreciate if you help me me

I will appreciate if you help me.
I will appreciate it if you help me.
I would appreciate if you help me.
I would appreciate it if you help me.

Which sentences are grammatically correct?

Thanks.

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The last one seems most natural.

I think it’s also most grammatical, but I’m less sure about that.

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The following, to me, are grammatical.

  1. I will appreciate you if you help me. (the helper is appreciated)
  2. I will appreciate it if you help me. (the helping is appreciated)
  3. I would appreciate you/it if you helped me. (either - hypothetically)
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Your sentences are mostly correct, but here’s a clearer explanation to refine the usage:

  1. “I will appreciate you if you help me.”

    • This is grammatically correct, but it’s unusual. Saying “I appreciate you” typically refers to valuing the person themselves, not their actions. In this context, it might be clearer to say, “I would appreciate it if you help me.”
  2. “I will appreciate it if you help me.”

    • Correct. This emphasizes that you value the action of helping. It implies a future appreciation based on the action being completed.
  3. “I would appreciate you/it if you helped me.”

    • “I would appreciate it if you helped me” is correct. It expresses a polite and hypothetical or conditional request.
    • “I would appreciate you if you helped me” is odd because, again, it refers to the person, not their action. It’s better to say “I would appreciate your help” if you want to value the person’s contribution.

Summary:

  • Use “I would appreciate it if you helped me” for polite and conditional requests.
  • Avoid using “you” unless you’re directly referring to appreciating the person, not their actions.
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I could add a possibility or two.

“I would appreciate it if you would help me.”

“I would appreciate it if you could help me.”
Here, “could” encompasses not just the physical ability to help but also the time and inclination to help.

Of all these, I like the “could” form best. I think it does the best job of putting forward a “polite and conditional request”.

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In actual usage, this would probably be simplified.

I’d appreciate your help.

This is often a question as much as a statement. It is like saying:

Could you help me? I’d appreciate that.

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The grammatically correct sentences are:

  1. I will appreciate it if you help me.
  2. I would appreciate it if you help me.

The first sentence is in the future tense, and the second is in a more polite, conditional form. The other two sentences are slightly off in structure.

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None of them sound natural at all.

  • I would apppreciate it if you helped me.

Still using that DK-grammar book? It happens to be a dictionary with illustrations. The DK Illustrated Oxford Dictionary. If you’re interested in buying one, google it, it’s on there.

Vous parlez français? Mais, bien sûre.
Que pensez-vous ce que je veut dire avec une bataille filie?
Une suggestion, monsieur Kohyoongliat?
C’est juste la même qu’une bataille benie.

I’d appreciate it if you could help sounds natural. Or just I’d appreciate your help for something shorter.

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