Well, the example you gave is about people with binge drinking problem. And I also think there is possibility that men tend to think women are more aggressive in this kind of situation because it is so bizarre to deal with aggressive women.
So, to sum things up:
No one except Molly appears to feel they’ve been “stalked”.
Molly invited MrP to visit. Some alternatives were mentioned by others.
Some people have suggested that men and women are different.
Molly appears to think women are more aggressive than men.
The topic of ‘forum stalkers’ seems to have run its course and the thread has gone off-topic. I’d suggest that locking this thread might now be appropriate.
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