Calling forum members by their names?

And you are queen of usage blunders.

Is this a usage blunder?

Walfie! Youā€™re back. In typical style.

Molly, why do you call Ralf ā€œWalfieā€? You want to be called ā€œMollyā€ and thatā€™s what we do. Please address Ralf using his name. Thanks.[YSaerTTEW443543]

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It would indeed be an interesting thread. There are many aspects of Nigerian life we could discuss, without straying into personal details.

All the best,

MrP

OK, Iā€™ll call Ralf by his chosen name. Will you now you ask Mr P to stop calling me ā€œold chapā€ and referring to me as ā€œheā€ and ā€œhimā€? Thanks.

So, cā€™mon, set it up.

Actually, itā€™s not his chosen name but his given or real name.

As for Mr. P calling you ā€œold chapā€ and referring to you as ā€œheā€ and ā€œhimā€, yes, I also think that he should explain why he is doing that.[YSaerTTEW443543]

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Yes, ask him to explain right here and not in PMs. Ask him to stop it , will you?

He has already stopped, hasnā€™t he?[YSaerTTEW443543]

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Even though I politely asked him to stop doing so, heā€™s continued to do so.

The latest was today:

Hi Molly,

Is ā€˜Mollyā€™ your moniker?

Hello my friend,

On other forums, you post as a British male of Anglo-Irish descent. This is consistent with the style and content of your contributions. I am inclined to think it is the truth. Hence ā€œheā€ and ā€œhimā€.

As for ā€œold chapā€: it is a friendly appellation, and should cause no offence. However, I wonā€™t force it upon you.

With best wishes,

MrP

Absolute nonsense! My British male of Anglo-Irish descent husband used to post on forums you frequent, but was sniped off by you. A sad loss for the forum, but a kind of pathetic victory for you. I am Molly, Nigerian, and a woman. Understand?

And you use it regulary for women, do you?

And which threads would those be, my friend? Can you provide an example?

MrP

If you can tell me how to search back so far, Iā€™ll find them. Also, know that I am no friend of yours, so ā€œMollyā€ will do just fine, thanks.

Well, which forum did you have in mind, and which member? (You mentioned more than one of the former; the search facilities may differ.)

Let me get this straight: You tell me that you thought I was my husband, the ā€œBritish male of Anglo-Irish descentā€. So which forum and poster were you referring to?

Actually, I didnā€™t mention a husband, as far as I know.

But you mentioned a thread (or threads) in which I had ā€œsniped offā€ a certain poster from certain forums; so you would presumably know which poster and forums were involved. If you tell me, Iā€™ll see if I can find his posts for you.

With best wishes,

MrP

What a strange conversationalist you are, Mr P.

You assert ā€œOn other forums, you post as a British male of Anglo-Irish descent.ā€

I tell you you are mistaken and talking about my husband.

After being told that, you say you didnā€™t mention a husband.

Odd conversation.

So, by saying ā€œyou post as a British male of Anglo-Irish descentā€ I assumed you knew which poster and fora you were talking about.

So why ask

Let me put it more simply: What was the name of this ā€œBritish male of Anglo-Irish descentā€, and on which forum did he post?