Tenses

English as a Second Language English Vocabulary, Grammar and Idioms
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FRANK: You wanna go out with my wife?! Where [color=red]do you get the nerve
to ask me something like that?!

-----From Seinfeld

Do or did? What’s the difference?

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2

did - past tense. The man had the nerve to ask him that question.
do - present tense. The man still has ‘the nerve’ even though the question is in the past.

In practical usage - no difference.

3

Where have you got the nerve?

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‘Where have you got the nerve?’ is not usual.