An interesting phenomenon showcases that young people are more likely to live independently in US. In contrast, in China, more young people tend to live with their parents if it allows until they get married or move to another city, having to live by themselves. In my opinion, I prefer to live independently as soon as possible, mainly based on the following reasons.
First, young people living by themselves tend to better and faster adapt to society. It is a vital skill of survival. For example, I grew up in a remote and rural village. When I graduated from college, I started to live in a big city for work, far away from my parents. Since then, I have learned how to cook, take care of myself, and communicate with my neighbors. Quickly, I grew lots of social skills. Besides, I learned how to repair a toilet, change a broken lamp, pay my taxes, etc. I had never had an opportunity of knowing such survival skills until I set to live by myself. In contrast with my friends who are still living with their parents, I have achieved a lot, obtaining many abilities that others admire and never had a thought to gain. That’s why I support young people should live independently as soon as possible.
Second, young people usually tend to grow mature and think for themselves when choosing to live independently. It is another significant skill young people should master in their lives. For instance, my brother was spoiled, taking no responsibility for his words and actions, rarely thinking out himself. In my memory, almost all of his important life decisions before he was 27 years old were made by my father for him, such as what major he needed to study in college and what job he should take in the future. However, my brother became another person when he started to live by himself. He became more social and talkative since he had more chances to make friends instead of staying with my parents after work.
Meanwhile, he rethought his life and what kind of job he truly wanted to take in his life, etc. Afterward, he quit his former career as a doctor and started his own business, selling medical devices and equipment. All of those changes did not take place until he lived alone. Therefore, I have to admit independent living space provides young people more time and chances to find out what they genuinely want to do and think independently.
Third, maybe some people would think living with their parents for a long time can save plenty of money and do not have to worry about rent and food, etc. I understand what they think; however, they are losing significant opportunities to improve themselves and grow stronger compared to their benefits.
To sum it up, I strongly recommend young people live independently as soon as possible since it brings up them a large amount of benefit to be themselves, grow stronger, getting more social skills, and so on. Isn’t it the most important thing we, as human beings, should achieve and pursue in our lives?