[color=darkblue]Research indicates that the charatistics we are born with have much more influence on our personality and development than any experiences we may have in our life.
There is no doubt that our behaviour and reactions are influenced greatly by several factors. The debate on this matter is still under discussion. Some people believe that the characteristics we inherit from our parents have effected our deportments with the people. Conversely, another group suggest that the knowledge and experience we earn from our surrounding environment also play a crucial role in determining our personality.
Undoubtedly, the features we get from our parents are countless and hardly to be acquied in daily life experience, how and why all these expressions and vagues cannot be compensated by life trials?
Simply, the talent is not a feature a person can ensure by training or practices, many people have it impossible to compete the talented ones. Some people exploit his or her life seeking for a magic method that can able them even to mimic the original brilliant and talented people.
In addition to that, for instance, a good English football player (David beckham) we all now this unrepresented footballer who draw the smile on our face. Anyway, many people are trying hard to imitate him or rather training on his movements and tricks in football game, but the majority of them fail. because it is unacquirable character.
On the other hand, some active and thinker people argue that the influence of inherited features is much more affected that the experimental ones. Many people have high degree of intelligent and they can use it to impress their opponents of talented people, but it needs patience and making an unprecedented effort to achieve their goals.
As an example the scientist of math Albert Einstein was called a time by his teacher that he is stupid student, and even his most relative person which was his mother told him that he is not qualified to attend a school and continue studying, but in spite of all these troubles and unmotivated comments he dedicated and continued his studying until becoming a scientist of both maths and physics.
To sum up, I totally agree that the charecters we get from our parents are far more vital and effective, but in the same time there are some rare instances which have succeded in their life by their own experiences and efforts.
TOEFL listening discussions: A conversation between a student and a registration clerk during registration week