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Are these sentences both correct:

[color=indigo]1-He is not much of a chess player.
[color=red]2-He is not so much of a chess player.

I have heard “1”, but am not sure if “2” is used.

Gratefully,
Navi.

Hi,

(1) is fine but (2) is only half finished. This sort of sentence would be possibly along these lines: He is not so much of a chess player as more of a card player.

Alan

He is not so much of a chess player as of a card player.

What about this sentence, Alan?

I think you need ‘more’ to balance the sentence.

Does it mean that

  1. he is more a card player than a chess player? or
  2. he does not play chess so well (or much?) as he does card?

Alan,

  1. You’re not much of a help.
  2. You’re not much of a help to me.
  3. You’re not so much of a help.
  4. You’re not so much of a help to me.
    Please give me the correct meaning of those sentences.

Beeesneees,
Could you please help me?

#1 just means that the other person is not being very helpful/useful (either they are trying to help but failing, or they are not even trying). #2 is the same except it explictly says that the other person is not being helpful to the speaker.

#3 and #4 could mean that the other person is not so much of a help as someone else (who is implied by the context), or could mean the same as #1/#2 with a slight nuance of moderation, resignation, disappointment, or other feeling.

I’ve heard “not so much” used a LOT more in the last five years as in the prior fifty.
Someone will say, “Ernest is a hard worker; his wife not so much” as a way of expressing acute dissatisfaction without sounding like a whiny SOB.