Friendship is a sensitive and significance thing in our life. Some says that it is the most importance, he or she can do everything to keep a long-lasting friendship. And usually we are both willing to help our friends to get rid of troubles, however, with money: I think it must be consider careful when we need helps in friends, and through some real life experiences, I would say that we should not borrowing money from our friends.
First and foremost, money is usually related to greedy, trouble or business plans in life and can harm our friendship. When we need help in money, we usually think about friends, because they are usually closer with us. It is acceptable to borrow one or two time with small amount of money, and pay back on time. However, when we borrow our friends to much, they can have a different attitude about you, you do not know how to manage your budget, and most harmful things occur when you can not pay back on time. I have experienced in last year, when I lost my computer and cannot buy a new one soon, I had to borrow money from my friend to buy it. But it was not his money, that amount of money he will use to pay for tuition, after that there are some troubles occur with me, I could not pay him back on time, and when money is paid back, I saw that a serious wrong thing I have made. I should not borrow money from my friend anymore. The second, some friends do not like to lend money, some because his characteristic, and some because he or she need money as you. And the thing is, he or she is hesitate to say no also, it is a bit funny but it is real. If with a strange person, one can easy say no, but with friendship and bond, we have put them in a quandary, I mean that in reality he or she does not want to lend money but still do it. And I saw that from my father circumstance, when he needed money to run a business, he borrowed money from his close friend. Of course, His friend had lent him, but just after some weeks later, he asked my father that he realy need money. My father had to delay the business plan, after that happened, they seems not be closer as before. Last but not least, we have many others options to solve the money issue. Nowadays with mordern life, we can easily borrow money from banks. In addition, we still have credit card. After experience, my father usually come to bank to ask about money. And this is place for him, bank have clearly rules, pay back on time, and a minor pay back. This even make him has to carefully to use that amount of money, and plan thing better. Hence, why do we have to ask a friendship for money? In conclusion, with self experience, money is essential is life however friendship is moreover important. Money can ruin friendship, I have a clear attitude about both of these thing, therefore I usually do not make big mistake with my friend and have a long-lasting friendship.
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