He hadn't heard from his son in months and it was his fault. When his son had voiced a legitimate concern about passing Basic Training he had told him "If you can't stand the heat, get out of the .....," Not the most understanding thing to say. (*) kitchen (*) pool (*) forest (*) booth
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